SO I have to rant just a minute! I have been single and ready to mingle for just about my whole adult life. All my best friends are used to being able to count on me at a moment’s notice to do whatever and whomever. Well………this has changed recently. I have started seeing someone I like VERY MUCH. We spend pretty much every weekend together. AND I am starting to notice that instead of being incredibly happy for me and wishing my new fledging of a relationship good things….I am getting jealous underhanded comments. I even had to cancel New Year’s Eve plans with my new beau because one friend in particular REFUSED to be a third wheel. Claiming that I needed to stick to the original plans we made and that I was being a bad friend for changing them last minute.
1.) I would never make someone feel like a third wheel
2.) I would never make someone feel bad for getting a new crush and wanting to spend time with them…I would ENCOURAGE IT
3.) Your insecurity is showing BIG TIME
I realize that its tuff being single (hello I am a master) and it’s even worse when the one person you could always count on for a good time is now coupled up. Well….that’s life, I can’t be single forever to make you happy. Not saying this new relationship will ever go somewhere….it could end tomorrow….or go on forever???? But as a friend you need to get over yourself and worry about your own happiness, because I have my own to worry about.
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